And have you considered that the problem isn't entirely with you? You blame yourself for plenty that isn't your fault, or where the blame could be split.
[He's not going to talk like Strider isn't responsible at all, because he might be. He doesn't know the circumstances. But given what he's heard about this brother of his, he refuses to believe this is just an issue with one side of the relationship.]
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[He's not going to talk like Strider isn't responsible at all, because he might be. He doesn't know the circumstances. But given what he's heard about this brother of his, he refuses to believe this is just an issue with one side of the relationship.]